Frank
Hello, this is Frank.
Today’s topic is about relationship issues.
【Question】
It’s a bit embarrassing to admit, but no one at work really talks to me, and I’m feeling like a Lonely Chaplin. What should I do? (42-year-old engineer at a major electronics company)
【Answer】
The fact that you can joke about being a “Lonely Chaplin” means you’re still doing okay. If you’re constantly worried about what others think, that’s a sign you haven’t built your own paradigm yet.
Forget dreams and hopes for now—focus on having conviction. Ask yourself: What do I really want to do? What do I want to create?
What do I want to accomplish?
Once you’ve got your direction, take small steps toward it—that builds confidence. It’s not about what others think of you, it’s about what *you* want.
Me? Even if 999 out of 1000 people are against me, if just one person gets me, that’s enough.
I’m guessing you’ve got your hair neatly parted 7:3, but go ahead—mess it up and run toward the sun.
Shout it out loud—
――I love you!
That’s right, love yourself first.
When you do, the world around you starts to look different.
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